Sunday, March 13, 2011

About God

Nidhi one day: When God was a little child did he go to school?

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I've just read the bible story about Jesus raising Jairus's daughter from the dead to Nidhi. She contemplates this for a while and then says:
"I want to be like Jesus. When I die and go to heaven will I be able to do all the things that God can do?"

Thursday, February 24, 2011

How old?

Nidhi's previous key worker was very impressed when, early in September, after Nidhi started pre-school, one day she counted upto 30 unaided. Further, when the key worker (Dana) said that that was how old she was, Nidhi told her that her mummy was 32 years old and that her daddy was 33. I din't find this remarkable until this week.

This week is school half term and Nidhi has been very socially active. She's been having playdates with friends from pre-school every day. The pre-school mom who came on Monday was clearly impressed when Nidhi counted upto 100, to take turns for playing with the same toy. Her son wouldn't count upto 20 without making mistakes.

Then yesterday another girl from pre-school was playing with Nidhi and they were talking about their ages. The girl asked how old I was and Nidhi said I was 33years old and so was her father. Then Nidhi asked the girl how old her dad was. The girl said 15. Nidhi turned around and gave me a funny look. Today she said, "Her dad cannot be 15 because then he will be a child."

Given any two random numbers between 1 and 100, Nidhi can correctly say which is the bigger of the two.

Literacy and numeracy appear to be her strengths. When Nidhi started pre-school I was pretty certain she would be the brightest child in her class. I have been in to preschool to help several times in the last term and a half. As a result, I have had the opportunity to observe all the children. I have to say, I no longer consider Nidhi the brightest child in the class. They are all unique and all have their talents. Some are great at making friends, others are great at looking after each other, some have very good communication, some are very confident and assertive, some are just very funny the way they are, and the things they say.

They are at this lovely age when it's wonderful to watch them learn and develop. It would be silly really to try to compare or pit them against each other.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Taste of Bollywood

By choice, we have no TV. Nidhi has not watched any Bollywood movies or songs till date. Today I was humming an old Hindi song all morning. Wanting to get more of the lyrics I searched for the video and played it on youtube.

After a couple of lines of the song have played, Nidhi appears interested and watches the screen.
4yo: I like this singing. I like the song.
Me: :-)
4yo: But I can't sing it because the words are very different from what I know.
Me: :-)

After watching some more
4yo: Are they trying to get married?

Just for the record, it was a harmless song: Aisa sama na hota, from Zameen Asmaan, a 1980s movie.


Friday, February 18, 2011

Twice times

I'm reading a book to Nidhi and notice that she is playing with her fingers instead of following the story. I'm just about to show my irritation when she says "Four twos are nine". I look at her a little doubtfully and shake my head "Unh..unh". She looks at her fingers again and says"It's eight. Four twos are eight"

I'm amazed but say nothing. She did this a few weeks back when I was putting her to bed and she was playing with her fingers and said "Three twos is six". At that time I din't pay much attention as I thought it was purely guesswork or chance.

I don't know why she's even thinking on these lines (ie times tables). We have never touched the subject as far as I can remember.

I had a general chat with Liz, her key worker at pre-school earlier today. I did not talk about any of Nidhi's numeracy skills but Liz mentioned that numbers seems to be Nidhi's strength/talent. She plans to work further with Nidhi on numbers in the next half term. Will be interesting to see how that goes.

Friday, February 11, 2011

You can't win

Nidhi loves her fried egg sunny side up. Not surprisingly she loves runny egg yolk. I'm thinking of a quick dinner tonight since we were late getting back from the dentist.

Me: Would you like fried egg or fish fingers?
4yo: Fried egg. But don't give me 4 pieces of bread, just give me 2.
Me: Why?
4yo: Because by the time I eat 2 pieces, it gets over.
Me: What gets over?
4yo: The dip (she means the runny yolk into which she dips the bread)
Me: Well, you've got to eat the white part then. You can't just eat the yolk and leave the rest. I'm not going to make a fried egg. I'm making an omelette.
4yo: Ok, I'll have fish fingers.

Wednesday, February 09, 2011

No longer 3yo

4yo: Can God carry the world?
Me: Yes, he can do anything
4yo: Can he carry you, and me and daddy, and all the 6 billion people in the world?
Me: Yes, he can
4yo: Can Samson carry that?
Me: Hmmm... no I don't think so
4yo: But he was very strong. Can Samson carry 10 people?
Me: Ya, may be, but not the whole world.
4yo: Can God carry himself?
Me: (sigh!) Yes, I think so, since he can do anything
4yo: Even though that is impossible?!
Me: Uh..uh..

Thursday, February 03, 2011

After life

3yo: Can we use toilets in heaven?
Me: Yes, I guess so. Why do you want to know?
3yo: Because daddy said we'll live in heaven for ever and ever.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Story teller

A story Nidhi made up during lunch one day

Once there were two girls. One was named Cherry and the other was named Chocolate. One day Cherry and Chocolate went to school. Their teacher said, "Cherry and Chocolate, both your names begin with 'Ch', so you both stand up."
But Cherry and Chocolate did not know their letter sounds. So they ran away.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

About God

3yo: Did God make poor people and robbers too?

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Cheeky Monkey

Me: Mummy loves you Tochutaen
3yo: Me too
(pause..)
3yo: I love myself too

Friday, December 17, 2010

When I grow up

3yo: When I grow up, I am going to marry Ben (boy at her pre-school)
Me: Not Wyatt? (another boy whom she does not like)
3yo: No, not Wyatt. I am going to make him sad and lonely.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Conversations with God 2

Nidhi, in the middle of prayer
".. and I am going to be a very good girl, so you will not have a chance to throw me into hell. .."

Tuesday, December 07, 2010

(Mis)Understanding English

I'm reading a bedtime story to Nidhi. In between she asks,

3yo: Why was the tail making a noise?
Me: Whose tail?
3yo: Big bear mother's tail.
Me: It wasn't making a noise.
3yo: Then why were they listening to it?

The sentence I had just read
"So, night after night, snug inside their den, the cubs listened to Big Bear Mother's tales."

Saturday, December 04, 2010

Reasoning and numeracy

On the phone to Amma:
"If there's only 1 crisp left, I'll give one quarter to daddy, one quarter to mummy, and I'll take half"


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3yo: How long will the payasam take?
Me: 15 minutes
3yo: Ok. How long will it take me to read the 'George' book (a book about a monkey called 'Curious George')
Me: 5 minutes
3yo: Ok. So, if I read the book, then it will still be 10 more minutes
Me: That's right
3yo (thinks for a bit): Ok. So I'll read the book 3 times and then the payasam will be ready


***
Me: If I make two sausages for each of us, then how many do I have to make
3yo (counts on her fingers): Two for mummy, two for daddy, two for me. That's six sausages.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Oh! to be a child

It snowed heavily in England today.

Me: If it snows like this we wont be able to go to school tomorrow
3yo: I want the snow to stop, because I want to ride my scooter to school tomorrow
Me: Um..hm
3yo: And I want it to snow on my way back, because I want to walk

Monday, November 29, 2010

You surprise me

We are playing 'doctor-doctor'. Nidhi is the doctor and picks up a notepad and pen to give me a prescription. She uses a whole sheet of paper, and writes letters all over the page, to prescribe 'P-a-r-i-s-i-m-o-l-l'.

That's her single-handed attempt at spelling Paracetamol.
***

Some of her remarks on the phone to Amma today:
"I want to get married in summer"
"Last night God disturbed my sleep"
***

Talking about her birthday
3yo: Can we have a party outside in the garden for my birthday?
Me: It will be very cold in February, Tochi
3yo: No, we can wear coats
Me: It will be cold. Everyone would like to be indoors, no one would want to be outside.
3yo: (getting upset) Nooo... I want to have a birthday in summer

Tuesday, November 09, 2010

How things were

I wrap Nidhi in a towel and pick her out of the bath. I haven't dried her completely, and as I enter the bedroom, I realise that she must be cold. Setting her down on the floor, I ask her to go quickly and stand in front of the heater.

As she is standing there, letting me wipe the rest of the water off her, she remarks: "In the olden days, when there were no towels.." .. pause.. "...and there were heaters, people used to dry their children on the heaters."

Aurangazeb

The monarch lay upon his bier,
Censers were burning low,
As through the loft arches streamed
The setting sun's red glow.
Still grasped he in his hand the blade
Which well-fought fields had won,
And Aurungzebe beside him knelt,
Usurper proud and son!

Remorse had stricken his false heart
And quenched his wonted fire,
With gloomy brow and look intent
He gazed upon his sire:
Can tyrant death make him afraid?
Hot tears burst from his eyes
As thus his grief found vent in words
To the warrior-train's surprise

"Father, thou wert the goodliest king
That e'er the sceptre swayed,
How could I then lift up my arm
Against thee undismayed,
How could I send thee here to pine
Usurp the peacock-throne
O had I perished in the womb
That deed were left undone.

See, all is changed that was estranged,
Awake my sire, my king,
See, soldiers in their war array
Thy son in fetters bring!
Thy rebel son who will abide
Thy word whate'er it be,
And fearless meet the wrack or steel
Rise up once more and see!

Thou wilt not hear, thou wilt not speak,
It is the last long sleep.
And am I not a king myself?
What means these stirrings deep?
O foolish eyes, what means this rheum?
I will not call them tears;
My heart that nothing e'er could daunt
Is faint with boding fears.

The past appears! a checkered field
Of guilt and shame and war,
What evil influence ruled my birth,
What swart malignant star?
Why did I barter peace of mind
For royal pomp and state?
Mad for the baleful meteor’s gleam
With worldly joys elate.

Remembered voices speak my name
And call me parricide,
The murdered Dara beckons me -
He was thy joy and pride:
And thus I fling the dear-bought crown,
But whither can I fly?
The awful thought still follows me
That even kings will die.

Wednesday, November 03, 2010

With dad

Rohan (to Nidhi): I love you more than there are birds in the sky
3yo (to dad): I love you more than there are cows in the ground

R: I love you more than there are stars in the sky
3yo (to dad): I love you more than there are moons.... umm... more than there are ducks in the river

R: I love you more than there are pebbles on the beach
3yo (to dad): I love you more than there is sand in my school

R: I love you..
3yo: (jumping in before he can finish): I love you more than you love me



Rohan and me are sitting and Nidhi approaches us menacingly.
3yo: I am pretending to be a lion (she pronounces it line)
Me: To be a what?
3yo: A line
Me: It's not line, it's lion
3yo: To be a line
Me: Lie-yun
3yo: I am pretending to be a lie-yern
Me to Ro: You try
Ro: Tochi, it's lie-un
{By this point 3yo probably wants to tear us both apart}
Since she isn't saying anything I ask: What are you pretending to be?
3yo: (pause) A leopard

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Ironical

Me to Rohan, in frustration, at the start of the weekend, feeling hopelessly inadequate and unfulfilled in the role of homemaker: "I want to do something! I want to DO something!!"

Nidhi, at play on the living room floor, looks up at me earnestly: "You can play with me, for your do something"